Thursday, December 3, 2009

Pretty Photos & An Update!! :)

Hey Ya'll,

Just a kind of quick post (I hope) to let you know how I am doing.  I am posting a picture of the Surgeons at the Western Bariatric Institute in Reno, Nevada.  If you are in this area, these Surgeons are fantastic!  My Surgeon is Dr Kozar.  He is the one on the far right in the photo.  He is an amazing Surgeon.
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Western Bariatric Institute Newsletter
December, 2009
Healthy Holidays!

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WBI Surgeons, left to right: Dr. Watson, Dr. Sasse, Dr. Ganser and Dr. Kozar





So, now with some pretty Christmas photos!!

Just another pretty tree!

I love bright, shiny ornaments!

Some more pretty ornaments.

And of course, a Hawaiian themed photo!!

So, now that the pretty photos are out of the way!  Yesterday, I ate less than what I am supposed to eat & I still didn't lose anything!!!  What gives?  If you eat less than what you are allowed to eat to have a weight loss, why am I not losing?  I am getting the proper amount of Proteins in too.  Maybe it is because I didn't drink the proper amount of water?  I will up my water intake today & see if that makes a difference.

Yesterday I spent most of the day (8 hrs) working on my Mom's painting.  I didn't finish painting & cleaning up my brushes until 11:30 pm!!  My mom loves roses, so I am painting her a vase of roses & I am attempting to have it finished by Christmas!!  I have already painted the background, the vase & now, the leaves.  All I have left is the roses, & there are 5 of them.  The problem is, I paint in oils so I have to let them dry (or mostly dry) between painting sessions.  Especially since they are so close together in the painting.  I tend to hold the canvas a lot when I paint so I can turn it in different positions.  Which is why I like it fairly dry.  Wish me luck!!  Hopefully it will turn out well.  I will post a photo of it when I am finished.

I need a fill!!  I am doing ok as far as hunger goes, but that is because I am eating more than I am supposed to be eating according to them at one sitting.  So my weight loss has slowed down.  But I am still trying to eat only the amount of calories I am allowed.  I am able to control myself as to when I eat.  But if I eat the smaller portions that I am supposed to eat, then I do get hungry earlier.  My biggest problem is at night.  Since I stay up so late, I am finding it hard not to graze.  I think I am getting myself under control in that aspect though.  :)  I am telling myself, am I REALLY hungry or is it just habit.  Most of the time it is habit.  But since I do get up later & stay up much later, my dinner time is around 10-11 pm.  So I need to eat something.  I just have to remind myself to not eat more than what I am allowed & not eat more due to Head Hunger!!

Because I was in my painting mode yesterday, DH & I didn't go walking.  Good thing, as I didn't finish painting until 11:30.  If we had walked, it would have been much later!  So we will definitely go walking tonight again.  Hopefully I can convince my DH to put up the tree tonight as well so I can put up the decorations!!  I really, really want to see some Christmas cheer in our home!  We are having some set backs due to the economy.  Not to mention that his work is Contracted through the State, & they are not always very timely with paying the smaller Contracted workers, making our paydays farther out than necessary & DH's hours has been cut significantly so we are pinching pennies right now to get through the holidays.  So a little Christmas cheer will do us good I think!!

Well I guess I will go for now, till next time!

Aloha My Friends  :)

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Welcome Anna!! :)

Hey Ya'll,

I was just adding a paragraph to my last post, when I noticed I had a new follower, The Forever Diet.  I would like to welcome you to my blog!  I have been following yours as well!  I am assuming that your name is Anna by your picture in the follower's section.  It says Super Mega Anna.  So I hope that I am not being too presumptuous by assuming I am right!  If I am wrong, strike me down now!!  LOL  Anyway, "welcome to my nightmare".

Aloha To My New Friend  :)

I'm Sooo Torn!! :(

Hey Ya'll,

First I want to post the pretty pictures, then I will get into what my Post Title refers to.


No, I am sorry to say that this is NOT my Christmas Tree!  I wish it were.  But I thought a pretty picture of a tree is better than no tree at all!!
This says Mele Kalikimaka which in Hawaiian, means Merry Christmas.  For those of you who have never been to Hawaii, it is pronounced; Maylay Kaaleekeemaakaa.  I know this isn't easy to understand, so here is a link to a site that explains the Hawaiian Alphabet for those that care to know!  http://www.alternative-hawaii.com/alpha.htm  And for those that would like to know what their name is in Hawaiian, here is another link, http://www.hawaiianshop.com/Hawaiian_Names.html.  Also, if you have ever watched the movie, National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation, the scene where Chevy Chase is daydreaming looking out at his backyard & imagining a swimming pool & everyone enjoying it.  The song being sung by Bing Crosby pronounces Mele Kalikimaka!

So, now for the sad, torn post.  I am torn between what I know, I REALLY NEED to do & what I REALLY WANT to do.  I really need to finish pulling our tax information together really quick.  But I really want to put up our Christmas Decorations!  The tax work could take at least a week if not two to finish.  Which would mean, why bother to put it all up for only a week or two at most, then have to tear it all down?  It would only take a day or two to put up all the Decorations, then I would have the rest of the time to do the taxes.  What do you guys think?  Am I being selfish wanting to put up some Christmas Cheer before doing the boring, tedious work? 

Oh, & did I mention that I need to get back to work on my painting?  I was hoping to have my Mom's painting done in time for Christmas, but unless I start painting, I will never get it finished!!!  Yikes, I don't know how I am going to get all this done!!

I better go for now, I have tons to do as you can imagine.  Till next time!

Aloha My Friends  :)

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

My Post Op Appointment :)

Hey Ya'll,

Just wanted to say hi & to let you know how my day went yesterday at the Post-Op Appointment with Dr Kozar in Reno.

Here are a couple of photos taken tonight of my battle wounds!!  There are 5 scars.  Except for the largest one, I think most will fade away pretty well.  Today is day 12 after Surgery.  So I think the Incisions are looking pretty good!

Yes, I am in my pj's already!  If we are at home, unless we have company over, then I am in my pj's relaxing.  :)  I hate to wear a bra as it always hurts me.  I am hoping that with weight loss, the pain will get less making it bearable to wear a bra more than when it is absolutely necessary!!  LOL

I thought it would be nice to show a different holiday decoration in every post.  I did not take this photo, nor is it of my house.  I just thought it was bright & festive.

I also thought it would be fun to show an ornament or decoration from Hawaii as well.  These flip flops are one of the Hawaiian ornaments I found online.


Yesterday was a busy day for us!  I didn't go to bed Sunday night until around 1:45 as usual (I am a late night person & rarely go to bed before 1 am), then my DH woke me up at 9:30 am so I could jump in the shower to get ready to drive up to Reno for my Surgery Post-Op Appointment.  Luckily, I lost all but .4 lbs of the weight that I had gained over Thanksgiving & the weekend!  So they were happy with my 25.6 lb loss to date!

They were thrilled & disbelieving when I told them that I have had none of the usual problems such as gas pains, nausea, etc.  But it is true!  I have had none of these problems.  Alas, I did tell them the truth about my eating food immediately.  The Doctor wasn't too thrilled, but since I had had no problems, no getting stuck, PB'g, etc.  He really couldn't say too much.  He said that the rules they give us is mostly for the majority of the patients who, if allowed to eat normally, wouldn't be able to control themselves & eat smaller bites, chew properly, etc & would end up messing up the Band by vomiting, etc.  So, he was amazed that I was able to eat normal & not have any problems &&& lose weight!  Now if only I can continue to LOSE weight!!

I'm serious, I have been eating pretty much what I felt like in small amounts.  The day after Surgery, at the buffet we went to eat at with my In-Laws.  I had a spoon of Mashed Potatoes w/Gravy, a spoon of Cottage Cheese, a spoon of Beans from the Mexican section & part of the filling from a piece of Key Lime Pie for lunch!!  Then for an early dinner, I had 1/3 of the Tuna from a Tuna Pita Sandwich & a few pieces of Cantaloupe & Honey Dew Melon.  Later that night, I ate another 1/3 of the Tuna & some more of the fruit.

Since we had requested a late check out at the Hotel, to allow the road over the Sierra's to get cleaned up & dry from the huge storm on Friday, we didn't have to check out until noon or 1 pm.  So we were up pretty late, making us both hungry before bed.  The next morning (Saturday), we went down & had breakfast before leaving & I had some fantastic Scrambled Eggs smothered in Cheddar Cheese.  Of course, I could only eat a small amount of it (damn! They were the best I have ever had.  Oh well!)!!  

Once we got home, I tried to be good & was for the first day or two, but ended up eating Soup w/the Noodles & Chicken chunks in it almost immediately.  Also I had some more home mixed Tuna.  Then my DH (he is the cook in our family), made me a really fantastic super moist Barbecue Meatloaf.  The meat just melts in your mouth!  So I have been living on it for a week!

Then on Thanksgiving, I had 2 small pieces of Turkey, a small piece of Ham (all of the meat was cut into very small pieces), a spoon of the Mashed Potatoes w/Gravy & a spoon of Alice's home made Macaroni & Cheese.  Then for desert later, I had a small piece of Pumpkin Pie & an even smaller piece of Chocolate Creme Pie (I did not eat the crust on either pie nor did I eat the creme topping on the creme pie) & a small scoop of Vanilla Ice Cream.   

So when the Doctor asked me how much Protein I was taking in, I couldn't say as I hadn't been checking anything that gave protein amounts.  But I did tell him that almost everything I have eaten since Surgery has been protein & I promised that I would begin keeping a journal of what I eat so we can figure out the protein amounts, etc.  So all in all, they were thrilled with my weight loss so far & my Incisions are healing nicely.

So we set my first fill appointment for December 28th.  Assuming I need it, or at least the person who administers the fills believes I do!  Since I am basically eating whatever I want, I will be sure to get a fill!!  I am lucky in that I can still go quite a long time between meals, but when I do eat, I eat probably a bit too much.  So the Doctor wants me to eat more smaller meals like 3-4 meals & 2-3 snacks a day instead.  It is hard to do this, as I have always been one to eat at mealtime mostly, but I will try to readjust my eating habits!

Anyway, after we got home yesterday & relaxed a bit from the long drive, we went for our walk.  I made the decision to try the extra long walk.  We made it but it was longgg.  Our area is on a hill, so any way we walk, we will have to walk back upwards at some point!  We figured we walked about a 1/2 mile last night & I wasn't even huffing & puffing like I used to, nor did I use my walker!!!  The only thing that hurt on me was my hips, so maybe there is some hope for me after all!!  :)

So last night, I began trying to get caught up on all of your blogs & posting my new one.  Unfortunately, it took so long to upload all the photos, that I didn't get to bed until almost 3 am!  And I still didn't really post anything but photos!  Oh well.  I like photos, & I like seeing photos in others blogs too!  It sort of makes it more personal, knowing that we are talking to each other from all different areas of the World!!

So seeing you in your surroundings makes everything we say to each other more real.  Being able to put a name & face to everyone we are communicating with makes our friendships seem so much more than just a hi kind of thing.  I'm sorry, I am not saying this very well, am I?  But I hope you understand what I am trying to say.  I really have enjoyed blogging & getting to know so many of you out there that is going through the same thing as me.  We are kindred spirits in this journey of ours.

Ok, time to dry my eyes now.  Today, I went shopping for items we needed in the house.  I had to go to 2 different Banks, & both Costco & Sams Club!  What a day it was.  I was exhausted by the time I got home!  All the crowds, especially at Costco!  But besides shopping for household items needed, I also had to pay the membership dues at both clubs, so that I COULD shop there!  The line for this was wayyy long at both places!  But I persevered & got it done for another year!!  LOL

I also had to go to K-Mart for my Sugar Free Kool-Aid.  This is the only store in town that sells it now!  Since I can't have my Diet Coke anymore, & I HATE Coffee or Tea!  I am drinking the Kool-Aid in Cherry flavor for my water.  I'm sorry ya'll, but I need a flavor to drink!  I only drink plain water when I am parched & desperate!!

 



Anyway, I hate to end on a down note, but I hope everyone had a great weekend.  Hope to hear from you soon.  OH!! I almost forgot!  The Doctor said that I have either a 2 or 2.5 cc fill already, due to the way he does the banding.  Maybe that's why I can go so long still without starving?

Aloha My Friends  :)


A Shout Out To Heidi S :)

Hey Ya'll,

I just wanted to say welcome to my newest follower Heidi S.  However, I am unable to check into your blog & I would love to follow you too.  So, if it's ok, please give me a shout out as to what your blog name is!  So, "welcome to my nightmare".  :)

Aloha To My New Friend

My New Look For Christmas!! :)

Hey Ya'll,

Hope you like my new look for Christmas!!  I just wanted to show my Christmas Spirit.  I Love Christmas!!  I will be showing at least one photo each post for Christmas.  However, unless I specifically say the photo is one of mine, you can be sure that it is a photo that I found online!!  LOL  Now, these photos that I am posting now, ARE MINE!  These are from last Christmas Eve.

This room is actually our Formal Dining Room, which we never use, so we made it my Conversation Room with my practically Antique Bookcase (it is about 33 yrs old).  We have to set up an artificial tree due to my allergies.  And if you notice the paintings on the wall, these are not my paintings.  One is done by my DH's Maternal Grandmother, the other is by DH's Paternal Grandmother.  The window behind the tree is the front of our house.

During the Christmas Season, we have to move one of the sofas from in front of the window to allow room for the tree.  So we move it in front of the Bookcase temporarily.  Can you tell that I like Teddy Bears?  The two framed Black & White Photographs on top of the Bookcase were taken by my Father-In-Law.
 
Now you can see my Teddy Bears better, as well as my small village.  It barely fits on the Coffee Table, & I decided to just go with a white towel instead of the fake snow last year, it was much easier!
This is where the Formal Living Room is supposed to be, but this is the TV room.  You can see our cat Oreo peeking out of his hiding place.  We didn't realize how sick he was at the time, but we ended up having to put him to sleep about a month later due to Cancer.

This is the Entertainment Center with the big ass TV.  We just took it to the dump last week!  The framed photo above it is also one of my Father-In-Laws Black & White photos.
Here are the damned green walls that I hate again!!

This is the green room or the official Family Room where the TV is supposed to be, but instead, we have the TV in the Formal Living Room (Yea right, we don't do anything formal!!) which is next to my Conversation Room.
This is our mantel.  You can see how much we use the spot for the TV (that cavernous hole to the left of the fireplace). LOL.  The framed photo hanging above the fireplace is a photo that my Mother-In-Law took along the Oregon Coastline.  By the way, are you seeing a running theme here?  I also like Beanie Babies!  Of course, I only had out the Christmas themed ones!  Oh, & the fireplace has only been lit probably 3-4 times in 9 yrs as it is too warm here to light it up most of the time!!!

This is our small Dinette area.  But we rarely even eat here!

Since we live in California, unless we have a really cold day, we can almost always hold our parties both indoors & out.  So we setup our Buffet line out on the patio, which made it much easier since the food wasn't in the way in the house!  We don't have a lot of space inside.

Here is my DH proudly standing in his domain!!  You can see the new French Doors we had just had installed.  We hadn't even taken off the plastic on the doors!

And our Buffet Setup.  It worked out really well.  And made the food line go much easier & faster.

This is my sweet Grand Daughter Emily.  She was 5 yrs old here.

Here is my Mom & my youngest Uncle Emery.  She was doing her best to act like she was ok that night, but now it is almost impossible for her to.  I wish I had a good photo of my Dad from that night, but he kept hiding behind boxes & bags of presents.  And if I did get him in a photo, it was blurred!!

And here are my two Grand Kids together, Walker (8 yrs) & Emily (5 yrs) old.  Aren't they just precious? 

Well, I had intended to write some more, but I unintentionally placed a ton of photos in the post & now it is going on 2:30 am.  I really need to get to bed!!  So I will post more tomorrow!  Hope everyone had a great weekend!!

Aloha My Friends  :)

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Finally Walked Again!!

Hey Ya'll,

My DH & I just returned from a walk in our neighborhood.  I hate to admit it, but it is getting a bit easier to walk.  I wasn't in as much pain, so I doubled our walk tonight!  The part I like about walking outdoors this time of year is getting to check out everyone's Christmas lights & decorations.  In case you forgot, I love Christmas decorations & lights!  The more the better.  I am even considering walking the opposite direction to check out the homes that way too.  Which if we went the long way around, back to our house, it would just about quadruple our walk so far.  But I am hoping that before the end of the Christmas season, I will be able to do it.

Earlier tonight I was watching a couple of shows on TLC channel which was very sad.  The first one was the Half-Ton Mom.  She was about 850 lbs & was finally given the ok for Gastric Bypass Surgery by the Surgeons as they usually won't do the Surgery if you are over 400 lbs (I think it was).  She made it through the Surgery only to die about 2 wks later.  It was sooo sad, she really wanted to get her life back together (she was overweight her entire life) so she could be around for her two daughters.

The second show was called the Half-Ton Teen.  It focused mostly on one young man who was 19 yrs old, but it also showcased two other teens around 13-18 yrs old as well.  The boy they showed the least of, died during the filming.  Two of the boys was about 850 lbs & the other one was about 1000 lbs.  The 1000 lb boy is the one that died at age 18, sooo sad!

But the worst part is, the other two boys fought the weight loss tooth & nail.  They didn't want to eat the proper diet or exercise.  At the end of the program, one was still fighting the weight loss & the other finally seemed to come to the realization that if he didn't follow his Doctor's orders, he would lose him as his Doctor, & agreed to go into a Rehabilitation Center for a couple of months to continue learning how to eat & exercise, as his Mother was an enabler big time!  By the end of the show, he had lost about 400 lbs!  Anyway, just thought that it was interesting. 

I have an Aunt that was probably somewhere between 400-500 lbs the last time I saw her.  I haven't seen her in about 30 yrs, but I haven't heard of her dying so I can only hope that she finally got some help.  I will have to remember to ask my Mom next time I speak with her.

Well tonight, after getting back from our walk, I convinced my DH to bring down my Christmas decorations.  So, hopefully I will have them up within a few days.  Tomorrow, we have to drive back over the Sierra's to Reno for my after Surgery Check Up.  Wish me luck that the Doctor is happy with my weight loss so far & doesn't yell at me for eating what I wasn't supposed to so early.  :(  Anyway, I will let you know.

Well again, I am sure that I had intended to say more, but for the life of me, I can't remember!!  Like I said before, it is hell getting old, or as Garth Brooks said in one of his songs "I'm much too young to feel this damned old"!!  I am hoping that once I start losing a lot of weight, I can start going off some of the drugs that can wreak havoc with my memory!!  But somehow I doubt just dropping some of the meds will be enough!  Anyway, hope everyone had a great weekend!

Aloha My Friends  :) 

Hi To My 2 New Followers!

Hey Ya'll,

I just checked in & noticed that I have 2 new follower's, Fitness Bandit & Better Banded (Nicole)!!!!  Yea!  I will be checking your sites out as well!  Hope you like pictures, because when I do post them, I usually go crazy.  It's just impossible for me to put in only one or two!  Anyways, just wanted to say welcome & "welcome to my nightmare"!

By the way, Fitness Bandit.  I tried to leave a comment on your blog but was unable to.  Not sure if this is by design or if you were unaware of it.  Just wanted to let you know!!  Glad to see you are putting yourself first this year, you should.  Good luck in your weight loss.

Aloha My New Friends  :)

Saturday, November 28, 2009

A Shout Out To Gail!!

Hey Ya'll,

Just wanted to say welcome to my newest follower, Gail (Gail's Journey).  I have been following your blog as well.  Hope you are having a great weekend!  So, if you haven't already checked out her blog, check it out!!  And, "welcome to my nightmare" Gail. 

Aloha To My Newest Friend  :)

The Enforcer!! Plus TMI Questions :)

Hey Ya'll,

Am I the only one that has an ENFORCER for a significant other?  My DH watches me like a hawk!  He always has.  Even when I wasn't on a diet, he would say things like, "do you really need to eat that much?", or "you should only be eating half of what I eat at most."  Since the Surgery, if he thinks I am taking bites that are too large, or eating too fast, he is immediately on me to slow down or eat smaller bites, etc!!  I know that this is a good thing (but hate being told so! :)).  Especially when the restriction starts happening.  Right now, I don't really have any restriction to speak of, so unless I am eating too fast, or too much, I really haven't had any problems yet.  But in the long run, I will be happy for his help I am sure.  I was just curious if your husbands or boyfriends did this too?

WARNING!  WARNING!  TMI information being talked about or requested!!

Now, something that I have noticed in many of the blogs I read.  Many of you talk about burping a lot once you were banded.  Did it start immediately?  Or after you started having restriction?  I am curious because so far, I haven't had any burping episodes.

Another common complaint in the blogs is, (I don't know a polite way to say it) flatulence (passing gas, farting, etc).  Again, did it start immediately?  Or after restriction?  I ask this because I have always been gassy & so far, I haven't noticed anything more than normal, except for the first couple of days after Surgery.

Maybe this is why I didn't have the gas pains after Surgery, I wasn't afraid to let it out so to speak. :)  I am sure the Nurses weren't happy to have to walk into my room!!  LOL.  But the Nurse did ask me if I had any gas pains the morning after Surgery, & I told her no, but that I was passing gas regularly, & she said that was great!  She said that most patients are afraid to release it in an environment where someone could be coming in at any time!  And since the first few days, I haven't noticed being more gassy than normal.  So I'm thinking this might be something that picks up later after restriction?  Or is it because many eat a lot of beans for the protein?  Just curious if it is still to come or due to what ever I choose to eat in the future. 

Well, I think I am done asking the embarrassing questions for now!  Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Aloha My Friends  :)

Friday, November 27, 2009

Whew!! :)

Hey Ya'll,

Welcome back from Turkey Day!  Hope everyone had a great one with family & friends.  As I said yesterday, I ended up not being able to make it to my parents house yesterday as I had planned, since our company started arriving earlier than originally expected.  Plus I got up way late since I didn't get to sleep until about 4 am!

So today, after waking up (I didn't get to sleep last night until about 3 am), my DH & I went over to spend some time with them & had a great time.  My Nieces Son, Charlie (7) who lives with them was spending the weekend with his other Grandma, so we were able to actually sit down & have a good talk for a few hours.  It is always nice when we can be alone with them.  Neither of my parents are doing very well, & I am always concerned that this might be the last Holiday we get to spend with them.  I would have taken my camera but they really hate getting their picture taken.  Hopefully, they will be able to be here for Christmas.  I will for sure get a few pictures then, for any family members who might be reading from out of state!

I had so much that I wanted to say today, but for the life of me, I can't remember them!  Let me tell you, it is hell getting old sometimes!!  LOL  Well, since I can't remember anything else I wanted to say, I will get off for now.  If I remember later, I will post it later!!

Aloha My Friends  :)

Welcome Barbara! :)

Hey Ya'll,

Just wanted to say welcome to Barbara (Me & My Lucky Lap Band).  I just checked out your blog as well & will be following yours too!  Glad to hear that you had a great Thanksgiving!!  So, "welcome to my nightmare"! 

Aloha My New Friend!  :)

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Did Everyone Have A Great Thanksgiving??

Hey Ya'll,

In case you didn't notice, I changed up the colors in my blog in honor of the Christmas spirit!  I love Christmas!!  Let me know if the colors are too loud or hard to read.  I know that some colors don't mesh well & can hurt the eyes to look at too long!

Well, the day started out slow, but gained momentum throughout the day.  I had originally planned on going to my parents house to visit for a while as they were not up to coming to our house.  Unfortunately, since we had agreed to have Thanksgiving Dinner at our house for Walt's side of the family & some friends, we couldn't just leave.

However, like I said, I had intended to go visit my parents early, then come back in time for our guests.  But, things just didn't work out as planned.  For some reason unknown, I just could not get to sleep last night!  It was 4 am before I managed to get to sleep, so I got a late start, & before I could finish & get over there, our guests started to arrive.  So I called my parents instead to wish them well.  My daughter Christa prepared Thanksgiving Dinner for them as she always does if they are not coming to our house, & took it to their house.  She ate with them, as my grandchildren were sick all night with what appears to be the flu.  So they stayed home so as not to get my parents sick.  Then my daughter went home to stay with the kids while Christa's husband went to his families home for Thanksgiving Dinner with them.

We still ended up with a lot of great people to be around.  We had, my DH & I, Walt's kids Kat & Russ, & Kat's BFF, Courtney came with her Fiance Jeremy & his two Daughters, Ari (14) & Leah (9) from a prior marriage & his Mother, Alice.  Then Courtney's Dad & Step-Mom, Don & Debbie came too!  Oh, I forgot to include Carolyn, Walt's Ex-Wife was here as well!!  We have been inviting her to all our gatherings for about 9-10 years I believe.  We joke & call each other Sisters!!  LOL.

Leah went crazy when she saw my painting studio & wanted to ask all kinds of questions.  She also wanted to see all my paintings & sketches that I have done.  She was just so excited talking about it, that I gave her one of my smaller sketch books & a sketching pencil & eraser to sketch with.  So she spent the rest of the day sketching things & showing them to me all day!  Wasn't that sweet?  Then she left me with one of her sketches, so of course, I had to pin it up on the fridge with a magnet.

I am going to post some pictures, but I want to apologize in advance for them not being very good!  I was taking them pretty fast before anyone had time to say no!!  So some are blurry, some are not in total focus, etc.

This is Courtney & Jeremy with Courtney's Dad looking on behind them!  I would like to mention that I HATE the color of the walls in our (green) family room.  Walt picked the color out & to this day, I still don't like it!  He also insisted on painting them in enamel semi-gloss!  So they shine as well!!!

This is Court, Jeremy & his mom, Alice (Courtney's soon to be Mother-In-Law)

Kat, with Leah (9) on her right & Ari (14) on her left.  They were impatiently waiting for the Turkeys to finish cooking!

This is Courtney with her Dad, Don & her Step-Mom, Debbie & her future Mother-In-Law Alice in the white sweater.

Here is Carolyn & I, the sister's!! LOL  But we get along great.

Walt draining off some of the excess liquid out of the corn.  He had spilled it carrying it from the stove area to the counter.

Walt getting more of the dishes on the counter for the buffet line up!

The beginning of the buffet line!  We had two differently prepared Turkeys.  One was rotisseried on the barbecue, the other was deep fried (yum), & a Honey Baked Ham (double yum).

Just a quick shot of the whole line of food.  Everyone was starving by the time the Turkeys were done, & they didn't even want to wait for Walt to clear off the carcass's from the counter!!

And last but not least, a picture of my Step-Son, Russ.  He was already totally drunk by this time!!  He will not drink & drive (thank god), so he had to wait until he had brought Carolyn to the house, then he could start his drinking in earnest!  He made himself some Long Island Ice Tea's!!  I believe he was much more liberal with the alcohol on the second one!!

Sorry about the messy pictures!  Also, sorry that I didn't get any shots of the desserts!  But they were fantastic believe me!  Yes, I did partake of the dinner.  I had two small pieces of Turkey, a small piece of Ham (sliced very thin), a spoonful of Mashed Potatoes & Gravy, a spoonful of Corn & a couple of spoonfuls of the homemade Macaroni & Cheese!!  Then a little bit later, I had a small piece of the Pumpkin Pie & an even smaller piece of the Chocolate Creme Pie with a small amount of Vanilla Ice Cream.  But, I didn't eat the crusts!!  However, I did eat more than I should have, but still didn't eat to the point of hurting, so I hope that I didn't swell out my pouch (that is the only concern I had).  No getting stuck or PB'g thank goodness!!!

Well, I better go for now, hope everyone had a fantastic Thanksgiving!!  Next is Christmas!!!

Aloha My Friends  :) 

Happy Thanksgiving!! :)

Hey Ya'll,

I just wanted to wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving.  I hope everyone gets the chance to enjoy their family & friends on this beautiful day.  Here are a couple of photos of my two favorite dishes at Thanksgiving.


I hope your day turns out the way you wanted it to.  I only wish all our troops could be home with us as well.  Thinking of them making our life safe.
<3 Happy Thanksgiving Ya'll <3


Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Hi To New Followers!

I just noticed that I had a new follower & that I have two others that I didn't realize until now as your pictures are one of those silhouettes.  I would love to follow your blogs as well, so if you would like to give me your blog name, I will definitely check your site out!  Welcome to:  Asunny23, Amaris & Shelskharma (Shels Journey Forward).  I found Shels Journey Forward by chance, I am not sure if this is your blog, but I signed on as a follower just in case!!  Anyway, have a great Thanksgiving everyone & "welcome to my nightmare".

Aloha My Friends  :)

New Beginnings :)

Hey Ya'll,

Just wanted to say that I have lost another 3.8 lbs!  I am now down to 205.0!  It looks like I will be able to make onederland by Christmas!!









Last night my DH, made me walk the block with him again.  It appears that this is going to be a nightly ritual.  It isn't so bad once we get going, except for the cold.  I really don't want to walk before dark, I would rather walk after dark so no one can see me too clearly, which makes it colder.  Hopefully by Spring, I will look better walking.  Because of my hips, I walk funny.  I am hoping with the weight loss, it will help me to walk better & in less pain.  If only our walk was somewhere peaceful & pretty like this!

Well, I better go for now, we have to clean up the house for our Thanksgiving guests.  My DH (Walt) will be doing most of the cooking.  He will deep fry one of the turkeys & rotisserie another (yum).  Then make mashed potatoes, gravy & corn.  Our friend Courtney is bringing a ham (yum), & Carolyn (Walt's ex-wife) will bring a green vegetable & some pumpkin pies.  I'm not sure if we will have anything else though.  Others may bring something that I am not aware of.  Right now I am not up to decorating the house for Thanksgiving.  However, I do intend to decorate for Christmas (my favorite holiday)!

By the way, a big shout out to Courtney!  If you are reading this, Happy 26th Birthday today!!!



Well, I guess I better go for now.  Everyone have a fantastic THANKSGIVING!!!

Aloha My Friends  :)

Hi Laurel!!

Just wanted to welcome my newest follower, Laurel (Mountain Laurel).  I have finally found your blog & I am now following yours too.  Hope you have a great Thanksgiving tomorrow!  And, "welcome to my nightmare".

Aloha My Friend

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

I'm Down Again!! :)

Hey Ya'll,

Sorry I haven't posted in a few days.  It's just that there wasn't much to post about.  My pain is getting less & less everyday, as expected.  The big news is that I am down from my lowest pre-surgery weight!  My lowest pre-surgery weight was 211.0.  I am now at 208.8, so I have lost another 2.2 lbs!!  Yea!!  Since I started my pre-op diet, I have lost 19.8 lbs.  My diet has consisted of some items not on the approved list for the first week of recovery. 

I have added a few items from the 2nd & even 3rd weeks, & I haven't had any problem eating them.  What I have been eating that isn't on the approved list for the 1st week is, Oatmeal, Tuna, Cottage Cheese, & a small amount of Enchilada (which was very soft & mushy with ground beef instead of shredded beef) & some Refried Beans (umm yummy).  Yesterday was the first day that I could really drink lots of liquid between meals though, so I am upping my water intake by leaps & bounds.

I know that most of you went off your pain medications within a couple of days of surgery, but my DH said that I would heal faster if I could cut the pain level, as my body would be more relaxed, allowing it to heal.  And since he has been home with me every day except yesterday, he had kept me drugged up!!  :)  Yesterday, I went without any drugs until I went to bed, & except for a headache, I felt fine all day. 

I have been fighting a headache ever since I got out of the Hospital.  But since we were in the Desert with extremely high winds, I am thinking that it got my allergies up, so I took something for them last night, so hopefully, I won't have a headache today.

Last night, DH came home from work & said, get dressed, it's time for a walk!!  So I told him that I had just taken something for my head & I wanted it to start working before I went outside.  So a little later, we went for a walk around the block.  That is the first time I have done that in the 9 yrs we have lived in this house!!  I was huffing & puffing, but I made it (our block is on a hill, so no matter which way you walk, you will end up walking uphill).

I will be posting my measurements soon.  Well guys & girls, I don't have anything else to say right now, so I guess that I will just say goodbye. 

Aloha My Friends  :)

Saturday, November 21, 2009

OMG!! I Hate Constipation!! :(

Hey Y'all,

Well, I made it through the Surgery just fine, & so far still no gas pains, thank god!!  But I have had the worst case of Constipation already!!  I didn't think I was ever going to be able to go!  But finally....relief!!  LOL.  Sorry if this is TMI for you, but this is how I am feeling right now, so I just want to be honest. 

The other problem I am having is my ears.  I am not sure if it has anything to do with the Surgery or not (probably not), or if it was due to the drive home over the Sierra's.  I had taken some of my Liquid Vicodin for pain during the ride home & I became a bit tired so I tried to lay my head back while driving home & slept a bit, which meant that I wasn't awake to attempt to keep my ears cleared, pressure wise.  So, I am guessing that my pain is from the pressure.

I've got to tell you, even though my DH tried his best to drive slowly home, which is totally against his nature!  Parts of the road on the drive home is still in horrible condition & bumpy!  My DH forgot to keep out a pillow for my head & I felt like I was being tortured, as the truck is not the most comfortable to begin with, then all the bouncing & bumping!

Once we got home, I felt like I had been hit by a truck so I took some more drugs & went to bed for a few hours.  Once I woke up, I felt much better!!  I will be posting some of the photos that my DH took of me in the Hospital, some are not too great, so please bear with us, he forgot to turn on the flash.

This is a photo that I took when we stopped at the Summit rest area for a bathroom break on our way to Reno.  It had snowed the day before & left some nice clean snow.

This is me right after the 2nd Nurse, Bing was able to get my IV started in my right hand.  The 1st Nurse, attempted it in my left, which is why I have the bandage on my left hand!  Don't I look pretty in my huge gown & socks?  Not to mention the leggings!  But boy were they nice!  Like getting a leg massage all night.  So much better than the old fashioned tight  stocking leggings.

Here is the board that listed the Doctor's, Anesthesiologist's & Nurse's assigned to each bed.  The red check is me.  My Doctor was Kozar & the Anesthesiologist was Dr Marshall (the Head of Anesthesia).

This was my Surgical Nurse

This is Dr Marshall the Head of Anesthesia

Dr Kozar, my Surgeon

The two of us together

The Surgical Nurse & the Student Nurse that I agreed to allow in the OR, getting ready to wheel me to the OR.

Almost in the OR!  You can see Dr Kozar waiting for us down the hall!

Being wheeled back to my permanent room.  You can see by my eyes & forehead that I had spotted my DH & was trying not to cry!

My Surgery Scars shortly after getting to my room.

A little closer.

Here is a photo of my Stitches today before we left the Hotel.  They had bled during the night while I was sleeping, turning, walking, etc.  Unfortunately, the flash wasn't on, so the color is horrible.  You can see the bloating of the stomach was accentuated.

Well, I guess I better go for now.  Time to eat.

Aloha My Friends  :)

Friday, November 20, 2009

Welcome Former Fat Chick!! :)

Posting a big welcome to my newest follower Former Fat Chick.  I am unable to find your blog, if you would like to provide it, I would love to check out your site as well.  NEVER MIND, I FOUND YOU!!  Until then, "welcome to my nightmare".

Aloha My New Friend  :)

It's Done! I'm Banded! Now The Fun Begins :)

Hey Y'all,

Well I made it!  We arrived at the Hospital at 5:45am for a 6am check in time.  DH & I were taken back almost immediately & I was weighed in, (gasp).  But even with my jeans on, I only weighed 211.4, (yippee)!!  We were expecting my weight to be higher since we had gone to dinner the night before, & I had a nice Fillet Mignon with 1/2 a baked potato & a small dinner salad, not to mention the fantastic piece of cake for dessert!!  So my weight was back to what I weighed on our home scale, just before we left our house Wednesday morning to drive to Reno, & after I had already drank a Protein shake.  :)

I was sure my weight would have gone up from the dinner the night before, not down (go figure)!!  Anyway, I was taken back to my station where I was prepped for Surgery.  They gave me this huge gown that was in risk of falling off my shoulders if I move too much.  But it was comfortable.  I would rather have it too large, than too small & showing parts even my mother hasn't seen in years!! LOL.

The Nurse assigned to me for Surgery Prep, was really sweet.  Unfortunately, she wasn't able to get my IV started on the first try, so instead of attempting it several more times, causing me pain, she immediately requested a more experienced Nurse take over to put in my IV.  The 2nd Nurse got it in on the 1st try!!  And I don't have a bruise from it either!!  Shortly after, the Surgical Nurse came in to introduce herself & discuss the procedure.  She also introduced a student Surgical Nurse & asked my permission to allow her to attend my Surgery as a learning experience.  Of course, I said ok.  My DH began taking pictures of all the different Nurses for me.

Then the Anesthesiologist came in to introduce himself & go over my records, etc. (we found out that he was actually the Head of Anesthesia at the Hospital, so I had the top guy in charge of my Anesthesia!).  When he found out that I had both, Obstructive Sleep Apnea as well as Central Sleep Apnea, & that I was to go home the same day, he asked if I would be willing to stay overnight for observation.  We said that if they felt it was in my best interest & the Insurance would approve it, that I would of course stay the night.  So he went to discuss my case with my Surgeon, Dr Mark Kozar.

After discussing my case together, they came back in & said that because my Central Sleep Apnea periodically causes my Brain to not send signals to breath, & because the heavy pain medication causes the general body functions to slow down, including respiration even further, they were concerned that my Bi Pap Machine alone may not force me to start breathing again.  So they felt it best to keep me overnight the first night, when I would be most likely to use the heavier dose of medication so they could monitor my oxygen levels. 

Probably a good thing, because if I wasn't using the oxygen through the canola (Nose).  Every time I began to fall asleep, my breathing slowed way down (if not stopped altogether) & I wasn't getting enough oxygen.  Then my Oxygen Monitor would start flipping out.  So I had to use the Oxygen through the canola (Nose).  When I was ready to go to sleep (or at least attempt sleep), I began using my Bi Pap Machine, but then again, my Oxygen levels dropped below their acceptable level, so someone from the Pulmonary Department came in & hooked me up to the Oxygen Unit through my Bi-Pap Machine!  So DH & I are thinking that we may want to discuss this with my Pulmonogist to see if I should be using oxygen every night as well.  Something to think about at any rate.

Anyway, I digress again.  After the Doctor came in to discuss what was going to happen with everyone involved, in my little space, DH began taking pics again.  So I got a picture taken with my Surgeon as well.  Then, they wheeled me into the OR.  I always forget how cold it is in those rooms!!  My body was shaking uncontrollably.  But I don't remember too much other than that, as I was knocked out pretty quick!

During the Surgery, the Doctor discovered that I did have a Hiatal Hernia, so he went ahead & fixed it.  Isn't that great, that I got two Surgeries for the price of one!!??  I didn't even know that I had one.  It didn't show up in the Upper GI test, although I did have some of the symptoms.

I came out of Surgery easily, so they told me, as I don't remember it.  Apparently I had requested ice chips while I was waking up.  After awhile, I did start to realize where I was, but the effects were really very minimal compared to some of my past Surgeries.  I was really glad at that.  I usually come out of Anesthesia with cracked, chapped lips.  Not this time!!!  I did not have any of the bad effects of Anesthesia, like Nausea. 

I also haven't had any gas pains as yet.  Is this normal?  Or does the gas pains come later?  I really hope that if I don't have them as yet, I won't get them, at least not bad.  The only pain I have had so far is where the Portal was placed.  Which is what I was expecting.  So, if I don't get the gas pains, I can live with the normal Portal pain.  From reading everyone's blogs, I REALLY HOPE I DON'T GET THE GAS PAINS!!! 

Anyway, I was digressing again.  Once it was clear that I was waking up enough to be able to communicate, etc., they called to advise they were ready for me to go to a room.  Since I wasn't originally expected to stay the night, they didn't have a room immediately available, so we had to wait for a room.  Then I was transported to my room.  Once we got to the ward where my room was to be, my DH was standing there waiting for me.

Up until that time, I was fine.  But once I saw him, looking at me with so much concern on his face, I just couldn't hold in the emotions & tears started to well up in my eyes.  Did I ever mention that I am a very emotional person?  I am one of those that can cry at the drop of a hat.  I cry reading books, I cry watching TV, Movies, TV Commercials, etc, etc, etc.  My dad never had to even spank me growing up (and this was back when corporal punishment was acceptable.  When if you were out in public, & your child was misbehaving, you were looked down on if you didn't spank the child.  This was when teachers had the authority to spank you if necessary).  Anyway, he never had to spank me, all he had to do was say he was disappointed in me, & I would bawl my eyes out!  So, it took me a few minutes to get my composure back.  After all, I was alive, & in very little pain, compared to what I was expecting.

Of course, the reason I was feeling little pain at that time, was because I had just been given a double dose of liquid Vicodin before leaving Recovery.  Which in turn made me very drowsy shortly after being settled into my room.  My poor DH, had to sit there & watch me go in & out of sleep for a while.  So I finally convinced him to go get himself something to eat & relax before bringing my Bi Pap Machine back to the Hospital for me to sleep with.  I was lucky though, my room was designed to be a Semi-Private room, but no one was brought in while I was there, so I had to whole room to myself.  Anyway, unless I can think of something that I left out, this is my Surgery/Hospital story.  Hopefully, it will help someone else down the road.

We came back to our Hotel room after leaving the Hospital & originally didn't intend to go to the lunch at the Buffet.  But by the time Walt was ready to leave, I was feeling ok, so I decided to go.  We had a great time & I had my first meal out that wasn't clear liquids in the Hospital.  I am lucky in that my Surgeon only required clear liquids the first 24-48 hrs after Surgery.  Since I was having so little trouble, & had no nausea, etc. I had a spoonful of cottage cheese, a spoonful of beans, a spoonful of mashed potatoes with gravy & a few spoonfuls of the filing of a piece of key lime pie.  I was satisfied, not full.

Then about 3 1/2-4 hrs later, I was hungry again, so my DH & I walked into the Hotel/Casino area & had dinner.  I had some tuna from a tuna sandwich (no bread) (about 1/4 c) & a few pieces of cantaloupe & honey dew melon.  That was about 4:30, & it is now 8 pm, & I am still satisfied.  It really hit me today, that I really need to figure out how to eat differently!!  I knew it, but now that the Surgery is done, it is a different story living with it!

Well, I am sure that there is something that I am leaving out, but I am really tired & can't remember everything.  I have only had abut 3-4 hrs of sleep each night for the last 3-4 nights.  When we get home, I will download the photos & upload them in a day or two.  I am going to try to read some blogs tonight, before I fall to sleep.  So I may not get caught up for a couple of days.

Aloha My Friends  :)


 

Welcome Lady Lap Band!! :)

Just wanted to say hi to my latest follower, Breanne (Lady Lap Band)!  I'm following your site as well.  So, "welcome to my nightmare".

Aloha My New Friend

P.S.) To everyone checking in, I am back in the Hotel from the Hospital, but I am hungry so we are going to go eat, I will post when we return!!

Aloha My Frineds  :)

Thursday, November 19, 2009

A New Beginning :)

Howdy,

The surgery went very well. We got to the hospital a little before 6 am. Deb went back to the surgery room a little before 8 (surgery was schedule for 7:30 am - 9:00 am) and got out a little after 9 am into recovery. I wasn't able to join her in recovery. She was moved to a room around 11:30 am. This was originally going to be handled as an outpatient procedure. However, the surgeon after consultation with the anesthesiologist decided that because of the severity of her sleep apnea she should stay overnight in the hospital for observation (the concern is that the drugs used to suppress pain also tend to slow other bodily functions, such as respiration). Deb had the drink test about 4 pm and everything was fine. That wasn't a big surprise: she a had consumed several small cups of ice chips, drank a dose of liquid vicodin, and used the facilities several times prior to the drink test.

After getting back to her room from the drink test she was able to eat. When I left (I am going back: I have to bring her by-pap machine to her, since we were not originally planning on her staying overnight in the hospital) she was working on chicken broth, water (flavored with lemonade stuff, Crystal Light I think), and probably jello.

A dose of the liquid vicodin intially makes her pretty sleepy and she dozes off. When she is sleeping her oxygen level (without the machine) drops to a level that the little oxygen monitor doesn't like and it starts screaming. So she has an oxygen hook-up as well. The nurses said they will try her by-pap mahicne without any oxygen assist to begin with. If her oxygen levels don't look good with just the by-pap machine they will add oxygen to the air supply provided by the machine, so she will have enough oxygen one way or the other. The one hookup she likes is the lower leg massage and wants to take that home.

She wanted all her supporters to get an update and not have to wait until tomorrow when she gets back to the hotel room. I have tried to provide enough information to let you know how Deb is doing. She will undoubtedly have more to say when she is able to get to the computer along with pictures eventually. On a personal note from me: I appreciate all the support she has received from all of you. It has helped tremendously, thank you.

Have fun,

Walt

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Welcome To My New Follower!! :)

I almost forgot to say welcome to R.C. (The Cozy Coconut).  Hope you enjoy reading my blog as much as I enjoy reading yours!!  "Welcome to my nightmare"

Aloha My New Friend