tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post1481648004208567882..comments2023-10-12T05:56:52.892-07:00Comments on Hawaii Bound Bandster: Sorry For So Many Posts In One Day!Debihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09992977491095091038noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-54681849351576858802011-01-31T19:35:58.153-08:002011-01-31T19:35:58.153-08:00Thanks Amanda, you were right!! I will post about...Thanks Amanda, you were right!! I will post about it tomorrow!! :)Debihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09992977491095091038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-88473166507532502332011-01-31T16:45:05.319-08:002011-01-31T16:45:05.319-08:00You guys have had so much stress and upheaval late...You guys have had so much stress and upheaval lately. Frankly I'd be surprised if you WEREN'T also having some marital strife. It sucks that he won't talk to you, but it sounds like he just needs to cool off so you can discuss things. Try not to freak out too much. Give him his space and see where you're at tomorrow. I doubt he wants to spend his birthday nursing a grudge.Amanda Kiskahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035180757671095192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-61480256695330681522011-01-31T16:44:29.202-08:002011-01-31T16:44:29.202-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Amanda Kiskahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035180757671095192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-7640372903695096892011-01-30T22:24:45.522-08:002011-01-30T22:24:45.522-08:00Thanks Lisa, BTW, he went to bed without kissing m...Thanks Lisa, BTW, he went to bed without kissing me goodnight. Not a good sign....Debihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09992977491095091038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-87091214206658631282011-01-30T22:20:16.555-08:002011-01-30T22:20:16.555-08:00Oh Debi, I'm sorry you Guys are having a rough...Oh Debi, I'm sorry you Guys are having a rough time right now.. Hopefully soon you'll be able to talk it through and get to the bottom of what's bothering him. It may just be he needs a break. It's been so stressful for both of you for so long, running around, finding the right home, moving - and now he travels so much to his job.. Maybe he just hit the wall. It happens to many of us. You're upset too, which is building on the stress that you've had to deal with. It sounds like you Guys desperately need some "alone" time... Just the two of you - alone. <br /><br />I'm sending good wishes and prayers your way...<br /><br />(((huggggsss)))~Lisa~https://www.blogger.com/profile/00758877185557627942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-43726727220651265252011-01-30T18:14:18.212-08:002011-01-30T18:14:18.212-08:00Thanks Linda, I only wish that all I had to do was...Thanks Linda, I only wish that all I had to do was give him his space. That I would gladly do. When he gets like this, it is like he hates me, so I sit on pins and needles until he figures it all out, and hopefully he will advise me of what was the problem!!Debihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09992977491095091038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-18693783577508957162011-01-30T18:06:50.262-08:002011-01-30T18:06:50.262-08:00Debi - Sorry things are so rough right now. I thin...Debi - Sorry things are so rough right now. I think at times we all can feel like we're walking a tightrope in a relationship. I hope you are able to talk things out soon. My husband likes to be alone when he's upset which is the opposite of me. After years of chasing after him and causing bigger fights I think we finally figured out a system that works - I give him some time to cool off, but then he has to talk through the issue with me. Good luck!Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07045822533798781579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-67193032711352692732011-01-30T17:27:01.124-08:002011-01-30T17:27:01.124-08:00Thanks Sandi! I hope so too! It's been about...Thanks Sandi! I hope so too! It's been about 5 hours and he has barely spoken a word to me yet!Debihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09992977491095091038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-91906688172841523972011-01-30T17:25:08.057-08:002011-01-30T17:25:08.057-08:00(((hugs))) I hope you guys sort it out and it does...(((hugs))) I hope you guys sort it out and it doesn't ruin your entire day! Hang in, coming from a girl who also needs to be alone when I am really mad, hopefully he comes around sooner than later.<br /><br />-S~Sandi @ This one time at 'band' camp...https://www.blogger.com/profile/13543356858894822104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-46028813054303925652011-01-30T15:31:23.380-08:002011-01-30T15:31:23.380-08:00Thanks Kellie!! I hope so too!Thanks Kellie!! I hope so too!Debihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09992977491095091038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-25766967437783689542011-01-30T15:22:50.290-08:002011-01-30T15:22:50.290-08:00Sending some love your way :( I hope everything so...Sending some love your way :( I hope everything sorts its self out for you soon.Something About Kelliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18162623591624971791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-53567869345640882142011-01-30T15:16:25.245-08:002011-01-30T15:16:25.245-08:00Caroline, don't worry, I truly am grateful for...Caroline, don't worry, I truly am grateful for any and all opinions! <br /><br />I agree, I would love to discuss it with him, I just hope that he will allow it. Half the time, he decides to "forgive" me and get over it, without really letting me know what I did in the first place, which is what is so unsettling...Debihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09992977491095091038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2060129031400488769.post-30044575814436313412011-01-30T15:11:48.249-08:002011-01-30T15:11:48.249-08:00Debi - I'm sending you a big hug. I hate the ...Debi - I'm sending you a big hug. I hate the idea of your being by yourself and feeling so unhappy and vulnerable. You've been with Walt for such a long time, I'm hoping that deep down you know him well enough to know that something such as disagreeing with him on something is not serious enough to be a cause for a parting of the ways. How about quietly discussing it once he's feeling back to his normal self? The worse part it seems to me is that you don't know where you are in your relationship with him. He sounds like a good man, but perhaps like most men not brilliant at expressing his feelings at the time... Please forgive me if I'm going too far here Debi, just wanted to reach out to you.<br />CarolineLonicerahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13141723287143567146noreply@blogger.com